Awareness isn't the problem.
You already see the pattern — in the guilt when you rest, the tension before certain calls, the way you automatically bridge or achieve.
What matters is which role is running strongest right now, across different areas of your life.
This quiz was designed to identify 5 common roles women learn early — patterns particularly prevalent in Asian family systems, but present across any culture that values duty, achievement, and emotional restraint.
The 5 roles:
- The Bridge - mediating everyone's needs
- The Achiever - worth through output
- The Dutiful - obligation over choice
- The Split - between two worlds
- The Suppressor - feelings filtered out
Takes 5 minutes.
No email required (unless you want to save your results).
This pattern also shows up strongly in your life. Once you've worked with your primary pattern for a while, exploring this one might reveal another layer of understanding.
In Soul Contract language, this is an agreement you've been living out. The invisible agreement you've been fulfilling without knowing the terms.
I'll send you your full results plus some additional insights on how to start shifting these patterns.
What this quiz covers (and what it doesn't):
These roles are just one layer of Soul Contract work — not the full system.
The quiz shows which common role is running strongest based on your responses.
Soul Contract reveals:
- How this pattern is showing up in your blueprint (and how weighted)
- What else is running alongside it
- What's underneath driving it all
- Your specific strategy forward — not general tips
If you're Asian or navigate similar cultural dynamics, this quiz shows the most visible pattern draining your energy right now.
If your result says "patterns aren't running your life" — you may have already done significant work, or these specific roles may not apply to your background.
Either way, Soul Contract can show you what wants to lead next.